Sparks

“Big things start from the littlest spark.” - DC. One of my big brothers said that recently after I had asked permission to gush about excitement for my girlish heart. I believe my exact response to him was, “look at you being all deep and shit.”

There is wisdom in that statement though. All it takes is a spark to start a fire and great things can happen from that. I get in my head and start to overthink things. It’s not helpful and certainly isn’t healthy. I think somehow I can control if I just know. There is no controlling how another person perceives us. They choose how they see us. Our actions and personality will contribute to that but in the end, it’s up to them to choose to spend their time with us and/or pursue us.